Archive | January 2012

Are you sure!

One whom you know, like and trust, One who supports.The definition of a friend, girlfriend and or sister-friend.

Watching those popular sitcom television shows make it seem so easy. Yes those character on the show have their issues, however at the end of the show, you’re left with the thought that a friend is a valuable part of ones life. Can this be true? We attend school to achieve education, reading, writing and arithmetic. If a class for friendship was a requirement to graduate high school, or a prerequisite to obtain a degree in college, how many would pass? If a law was passed tomorrow,  you had twenty-four hours to turn in all the people you know who are friend impostors, or you will be guilty by association.Would you take closer look at your friendships?

Should there be a trail period, how long should this probation period last, six month to a year? Should there be a retesting to keep your friendship card?  Should there be a Certification and or licensing before you can call yourself a friend?

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Where did you find that Hat?

Being a mother is very complexed! I talked to mothers from all spectrum of ethnic backgrounds, they all have their own flavor when it comes to parenting. Which one is the correct method of parenting? Does such method exist? I believe if your child gets to the age of 18, can read, form a complete sentence, can count his / her money correctly and experience little to no broken bones,  then you’re doing a great job. However if you’re the type of parent that does not give your child a fair chance in life by building them with all the tool they will need to fight in this life then you have not done your job as a parent.

Going through the motions!!!

Hi I was just thinking how mothers must paint on a smile, even though we are not feeling motherhood at the moment. Why is it taboo for a mother to say I don’t like being a mom today, or why are moms made to feel guilty because she wants to take time for herself to go to the bathroom alone and leave the screaming kid outside the bathroom without feeling bad about it. Does taking 10 min to drink camomile tea and let the kids stay in their pajamas all day reason to lose your mother of the year crown.